
Jeremiah 16: Thou Shalt Not Take Thee a Wife
A life as a sign: no marriage, no mourning, no feasting; fishers and hunters; and nations who will confess their fathers' lies
"The word of the LORD came also unto me, saying, Thou shalt not take thee a wife, neither shalt thou have sons or daughters in this place. For thus saith the LORD concerning the sons and concerning the daughters that are born in this place… They shall die of grievous deaths; they shall not be lamented; neither shall they be buried; but they shall be as dung upon the face of the earth" (16:1–4).
"For thus saith the LORD, Enter not into the house of mourning, neither go to lament nor bemoan them: for I have taken away my peace from this people, saith the LORD, even lovingkindness and mercies… Thou shalt not also go into the house of feasting, to sit with them to eat and to drink. For thus saith the LORD of hosts… I will cause to cease out of this place in your eyes, and in your days, the voice of mirth, and the voice of gladness, the voice of the bridegroom, and the voice of the bride" (vv. 5–9).

"Therefore, behold, the days come, saith the LORD, that it shall no more be said, The LORD liveth, that brought up the children of Israel out of the land of Egypt; But, The LORD liveth, that brought up the children of Israel from the land of the north… Behold, I will send for many fishers, saith the LORD, and they shall fish them; and after will I send for many hunters" (vv. 14–16).
"O LORD, my strength, and my fortress, and my refuge in the day of affliction, the Gentiles shall come unto thee from the ends of the earth, and shall say, Surely our fathers have inherited lies, vanity, and things wherein there is no profit. Shall a man make gods unto himself, and they are no gods?" (vv. 19–20).
| Verses | What it says | What to notice |
|---|---|---|
| 16:1–4 | Do not marry or have children here; children, mothers and fathers will die of disease, unmourned, unburied, food for birds and beasts | The only command to celibacy in the Hebrew Bible. |
| 16:5–7 | Do not enter the house of mourning (beit marzeach); I have withdrawn my peace, steadfast love (chesed) and mercy; no gashing, no shaving, no bread or cup of consolation | Marzeach: a funerary or banqueting association (see below). |
| 16:8–9 | Do not enter the house of feasting; I will silence joy, gladness, bridegroom and bride | The same four voices in 7:34; 25:10; 33:11. |
| 16:10–13 | "Why has the LORD pronounced this evil?" Your fathers forsook me; you did worse; I will hurl you to a land you do not know, to serve other gods | Question-and-answer form, as in Deuteronomy 29:24–28. |
| 16:14–15 | No more "as the LORD lives who brought Israel from Egypt," but "from the land of the north" | Repeated at 23:7–8 (see the passage page). |
| 16:16–18 | Many fishers and hunters to catch them from every hill and rock cleft; I will repay double | Mark 1:17's "fishers of men" uses a similar image with a different meaning. |
| 16:19–21 | The LORD my strength; nations will come and confess their fathers inherited lies; can people make gods? I will make them know my name | A confession of trust and a universal hope. |
The house of mourning
The Hebrew in 16:5 is beit marzeach (also spelled marzeah or marzeaḥ). The marzeach is known from Ugarit (14th–13th centuries BC), Phoenician and Aramaic inscriptions, and Amos 6:7: an association of men who met for feasts, sometimes in connection with the dead, under a patron god. In Jeremiah it seems to mean a funeral gathering with a meal. Mourning customs named here (gashing the body, shaving the head, the bread and cup of consolation) were widespread; Deuteronomy 14:1 forbids the first two for Israelites, which shows they were practised. Jeremiah is barred from the whole social world of grief.
A celibate prophet
Marriage and children were expected of men in ancient Israel; Jeremiah's celibacy is presented as a sign for a particular moment, not as an ideal. Later readers took it differently: some Christian writers cited Jeremiah (with John the Baptist and Paul) as a model of consecrated celibacy; rabbinic tradition did not, and some later Jewish legends even gave him descendants. In the text itself the command is a sign of judgment: there should be no future here to marry into.
Promise inside judgment
Verses 14–15 interrupt a sequence of judgment (vv. 10–13, 16–18) with a promise of return. Many scholars see it as an editorial addition, placed here and at 23:7–8 by those who knew the exile had happened; others think Jeremiah himself set hope within his warnings, as in 1:10 ("to build, and to plant"). The duplication suggests deliberate placement, whoever did it.
Hebrew and Greek
The Greek follows the Hebrew closely here. It translates beit marzeach as "their funeral feasts" and keeps the order of the chapter. Its 23:7–8 stands at the end of chapter 23, unlike the Hebrew. Jeremiah survives in two ancient Hebrew editions: the longer one preserved as the Masoretic Text (the basis of most Bibles) and a shorter one translated into Greek in the last centuries BC and also found, in fragments, among the Dead Sea Scrolls. The Greek is not simply a damaged copy of the Hebrew: it often reflects a different Hebrew text. The site shows both, and weighs each difference on its own (see "Two Ancient Jeremiahs").
What the evidence shows
- Jeremiah is commanded not to marry as a sign.
- The marzeach was a banqueting association known from Ugarit and other sources.
- Jeremiah 16:14–15 is an editorial addition.
- Gashing and shaving in mourning were practised in Judah. Inferred from the prohibitions in Deuteronomy 14:1 and prophetic texts.
More from this lesson
Why this matters to the rest of Scripture
- Ezekiel forbidden to mourn his wife.
- A prophet's marriage as a sign.
- The marzeach of the idle rich.
- The new-exodus promise again.