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The monument called Absalom's Pillar

Era 8 · The FallJeremiah

Jeremiah 16: Thou Shalt Not Take Thee a Wife

A life as a sign: no marriage, no mourning, no feasting; fishers and hunters; and nations who will confess their fathers' lies

· Lesson 16 of 25 · 15 min story

"The word of the LORD came also unto me, saying, Thou shalt not take thee a wife, neither shalt thou have sons or daughters in this place. For thus saith the LORD concerning the sons and concerning the daughters that are born in this place… They shall die of grievous deaths; they shall not be lamented; neither shall they be buried; but they shall be as dung upon the face of the earth" (16:1–4).

"For thus saith the LORD, Enter not into the house of mourning, neither go to lament nor bemoan them: for I have taken away my peace from this people, saith the LORD, even lovingkindness and mercies… Thou shalt not also go into the house of feasting, to sit with them to eat and to drink. For thus saith the LORD of hosts… I will cause to cease out of this place in your eyes, and in your days, the voice of mirth, and the voice of gladness, the voice of the bridegroom, and the voice of the bride" (vv. 5–9).

The monument called Absalom's Pillar
Site or place photograph"Absalom's Pillar" in the Kidron Valley (early 20th-century photograph): a tomb of the 1st century BC or AD, about a thousand years after Absalom, named by later tradition.Image credit

"Therefore, behold, the days come, saith the LORD, that it shall no more be said, The LORD liveth, that brought up the children of Israel out of the land of Egypt; But, The LORD liveth, that brought up the children of Israel from the land of the north… Behold, I will send for many fishers, saith the LORD, and they shall fish them; and after will I send for many hunters" (vv. 14–16).

"O LORD, my strength, and my fortress, and my refuge in the day of affliction, the Gentiles shall come unto thee from the ends of the earth, and shall say, Surely our fathers have inherited lies, vanity, and things wherein there is no profit. Shall a man make gods unto himself, and they are no gods?" (vv. 19–20).

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Journey of a PassageJeremiah 16:14–15 and 23:7–8: A new exodus: a promise that appears twice"Therefore, behold, the days come, saith the LORD, that it shall no more be said, The LORD liveth, that brought up the children of Israel out of the land of Egypt; But, The LORD liveth, that brought up the children of Israel from the land of the north, and from all the lands whither he had driven them." The return from exile will be so great that it replaces the exodus as the oath formula.
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Why this matters to the rest of Scripture

  • Ezekiel forbidden to mourn his wife.
  • A prophet's marriage as a sign.
  • The marzeach of the idle rich.
  • The new-exodus promise again.