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The monument called Absalom's Pillar

Era 6 · The First Kings2 Samuel

"O My Son Absalom"

"Would God I had died for thee"

· Lesson 18 of 29 · 10 min story

David divides his army under Joab, Abishai and Ittai, and commands: "Deal gently for my sake with the young man, even with Absalom." The battle is in the wood of Ephraim; twenty thousand fall, "and the wood devoured more people that day than the sword devoured."

"And Absalom rode upon a mule, and the mule went under the thick boughs of a great oak, and his head caught hold of the oak, and he was taken up between the heaven and the earth." A soldier tells Joab, but will not kill the king's son. Joab takes three darts "and thrust them through the heart of Absalom, while he was yet alive in the midst of the oak." They throw him into a great pit and pile stones over him.

The monument called Absalom's Pillar
Site or place photograph"Absalom's Pillar" in the Kidron Valley (early 20th-century photograph): a tomb of the 1st century BC or AD, about a thousand years after Absalom, named by later tradition.Image credit

Absalom had set up a pillar for himself in the King's Dale: "I have no son to keep my name in remembrance." Ahimaaz and a Cushite run with the news. "Is the young man Absalom safe?" The Cushite: "The enemies of my lord the king… be as that young man is." "And the king was much moved, and went up to the chamber over the gate, and wept: and as he went, thus he said, O my son Absalom, my son, my son Absalom! would God I had died for thee, O Absalom, my son, my son!"

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Echoes Across CivilizationsLaments for fallen heroesDid other ancient peoples compose laments for fallen warriors and friends?
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Salem / JerusalemSalem / JerusalemJerichoJerichoMahanaimMahanaimMount of OlivesMount of Olives

Location securely identified Probable identification Proposed or debated location Biblical route (roads schematic) Scholarly proposal

  • David's flight from Absalom. Illustrative. Jerusalem → the Kidron and Mount of Olives → Bahurim (unlocated) → the Jordan fords near Jericho → Mahanaim (proposed). The forest of Ephraim is not located.

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Echoes Across Civilizations

Optional: how other ancient peoples told similar stories. Open one to compare, then come back to the lesson.

Laments for fallen heroesMesopotamian · Greek · Sumerian

Did other ancient peoples compose laments for fallen warriors and friends?

  • Mesopotamian: Gilgamesh mourns Enkidu Shared literary world
  • Greek: Achilles mourns Patroclus Resemblance only
  • Sumerian: City laments Shared literary world
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Why this matters to the rest of Scripture

  • Absalom's hair.
  • "He that is hanged is accursed of God."
  • Jacob mourns Joseph.
  • The father runs to his son.